Why People Avoid Portraits And Why the Right One Will Mean More Than You Think
Let’s be honest.
Most people don’t exactly jump at the idea of booking a portrait session.
In fact, I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve heard:
“I hate being in front of the camera.”
“I don’t photograph well.”
“I’ll get one done when I lose weight.”
“I just want to wait until things settle down.”
It’s more common than people realise. You’re not alone.
We tell ourselves we don’t need photos of ourselves. We say it’s for weddings, or graduations, or special occasions not now. Not like this.
But under that, there’s something else going on.
Often, it’s fear.
Fear of not liking how we look. Fear of feeling judged. Fear of being vulnerable in front of a lens.
I get it.
You might think portrait photography is just for confident people. But I’ll let you in on something most of the people who walk into my studio feel exactly like you do. Nervous. Unsure. Wondering if they’ll like what they see.
That’s where everything changes.
Because when a portrait is done properly with time, guidance, and intention it’s not about perfection.
It’s about truth.
It’s about presence.
It’s about finally seeing yourself as more than a selfie, or a holiday snap, or a photo you were tagged in without warning.
A professional portrait holds weight. It lasts.
It’s something you can look back on and feel proud of.
And when it’s done well, it captures something real not just what you looked like, but who you were in that moment.
So why does it matter?
Because time moves fast.
Your kids grow up.
Your face changes.
Your parents age.
One day, you’ll be glad you stopped and captured it not the version of yourself you wished you were, but the version you were right then.
That’s the version your family loves.
That’s the version you’ll look back on with respect.
What’s the actual experience like in my studio?
It’s quiet. It’s calm. It’s guided.
I won’t rush you. I won’t leave you wondering what to do with your hands.
I’ll talk you through everything the lighting, the angles, the expression all of it.
You’ll leave saying what so many others have said:
“That was easier than I expected.”
You don’t need to be confident to book a portrait.
You don’t need to know how to pose.
You don’t even need to love being in front of a camera.
You just need to show up and let someone who knows how to work with real people take care of the rest.
If you’ve been putting it off, maybe now is the time.
Book it for yourself. Book it for your partner. Book it for your kids to remember you as you are now.
Whatever your reason, you don’t need to wait for perfect.
My portrait sessions are designed to feel natural, guided, and relaxed. Whether you’re after a professional headshot, a portrait for your family, or something more personal I’ll help you create something worth keeping.
Have a look through the portfolio, and if it feels right, I’d love to work with you.
You deserve to be seen.
If you’ve been thinking about booking a portrait but something’s held you back, maybe this is your sign. My studio is a calm, guided space and I’d love to help you feel proud of what we create.
David Mullins Photography is a professional portrait and headshot studio based in Point Cook, proudly serving clients across Wyndham, Hobsons Bay, and surrounding suburbs including Werribee, Altona, Hoppers Crossing, Tarneit, Truganina, Williams Landing, Seabrook, Laverton, Newport, Yarraville, and Footscray.
Known for relaxed, guided sessions and timeless, high-quality results, David specialises in:
LinkedIn and corporate headshots
Professional portraits for business and media
Fine art family photography
Studio pet photography
Creative and legacy portraiture
If you're looking for a trusted headshot photographer in Point Cook, or you’re ready to update your personal or professional image with a studio session in Melbourne’s West, you’re in the right place.